{"id":1170,"date":"2023-10-26T19:45:07","date_gmt":"2023-10-26T17:45:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nadiacenter.com\/?p=1170"},"modified":"2025-07-05T17:38:18","modified_gmt":"2025-07-05T15:38:18","slug":"how-to-seek-revenge-properly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nadiacenter.com\/en\/how-to-seek-revenge-properly\/","title":{"rendered":"How to take revenge correctly"},"content":{"rendered":"
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e all know the expression \"black revenge\" \u2013 when someone harbors a grudge against another and certainly wants to get even with him in the most terrible way. But is there such a thing as \"white revenge\" and what is it? I suggest to figure it out.<\/p>\n

Many people ask themselves: is it necessary to take revenge, how important is it, and if it is important, how to do it correctly?<\/p>\n

How to be ecological for yourself and act for your own good? How to deal with anger and allow yourself to act in ways that transform the dark side of revenge \u2013 destruction, and the white side \u2013 creation?<\/p>\n

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Let's remember everything that is connected with revenge. The first thing that comes to my mind is that when a person seeks revenge in a black way, he considers himself innocent, a victim of circumstances, a victim of other people who did something bad to him, and he was unable to respond, defend himself, gave in, succumbed to provocations, deception, threats, and events with this innocent person. And such a person often says to himself, \u201cYou can't do this to me! I was used, betrayed, abandoned, deceived...\" - the list goes on. The person experiences great pain, humiliation, insults. And it seems to him that the most important thing now is to punish the offender so that he too experiences all these feelings on himself. And when we cannot take direct revenge, we often say, \u201cMay everything you did to me come back to you like a boomerang,\" and wish various misfortunes on the offender in abundance, sparing no effort and energy on our negative fantasies and curses.<\/p>\n

But! You can't throw a stone without picking it up.<\/p>\n

What are we actually doing? After all, a boomerang is a tool for finding food and protection, and it only returns if it misses its target when launched. That is, if I am hit and I am the victim, how will the boomerang return? And what does it mean to to pick up a stone in your hands?<\/p>\n

I believe that any event that occurs without my will, including violence, both mental and physical, can only be truly committed against a child by parents or significant adults (or simply adults). In all other cases, an adult, and therefore an independent person, is a priori responsible for their choices.<\/p>\n

How do I make myself be used? How did I choose a person who betrayed me, abandoned me, offended me?.. The list goes on. How do I find situations where I am being counted on, fooled, stolen from? How do I allow this to happen, and who actually consents, by their actions, inaction, silence or words, to be hurt, deceived, betrayed, used, humiliated? Who actually prepares the ground for this?<\/p>\n

Once again: picking up a stone in hand means recognizing that I am responsible for the choices I make every minute.<\/p>\n

So how do I throw away this stone that hinders me, that I constantly stumble over, that is difficult for me to carry?<\/p>\n

BE YOU THREE TIMES\u2026 and here we begin to take revenge, but in a white way\u2026 FORGIVEN!!! For the good of my health and well-being, for the good of my female, maternal, marital happiness! For the good of the health, financial prosperity and joys of life of me and my children, my FAMILY!<\/p>\n

You need to admit that what you did before under duress and provoked the corresponding situations - in fact, you did it in order to satisfy some of your deep desires, and now you are able to consciously accept your choice, admit your weakness and vulnerability, and most importantly - to admit your hidden deep desires and to acknowledge your hidden, deep desires for love and belonging, for being needed, for respect, and for confirmation of your value and significance. Just tell yourself in a moment of doubt, \u201cMy actions were correct in this situation and at this stage of my development. They protected me, and I got what I wanted in the ways that I had. I thank myself for the decisions I made, and those to whom I gave a reason to treat myself badly - May you be three times forgiven! And IMPORTANTLY why I forgive - for the Good of Myself!\".<\/p>\n

I have the right to change my environment, and I have the right to refuse a service, purchase, or any action that I find unpleasant. I have the right to listen to myself and my feelings and not seek out any wrong advice from outside, but to find out what I can do best with a simple question: what do I want? How do I want to be treated? And to talk about it out loud\u2014what pleases me and what does not, what is possible and what is unacceptable under any circumstances. And what I need to do specifically for the result (here, the magic words NEED and MUST are indispensable: I WANT \u2013 this is for something pleasant, and to get this pleasant I NEED to make an effort).<\/p>\n

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And I throw away the heavy burden and feel light and free, because I have prepared fertile ground for my health and prosperity, for long, happy, blessed years of life!<\/p>\n

May You Be Three Times Forgiven for my good, my successes, and powerful financial flows! May You Be Three Times Forgiven! And my choices work for me, and I for the furniture! And I Bless Myself and keep joy, peace, and peace in My Goodness and easily make the right decisions for myself! I easily and ecologically cultivate the soil for creation and renewal; I throw away stumbling blocks and make room for delicious, healthy, useful for my body and soul, life-giving nutritious fruitage!<\/p>\n

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